. In fact, it is the opposite. The opposition would be the same but not as locked in or as intense. Lol just noticed what you wrote at the end about Mars/Uranus, sorry! This vertex conjunction shows up again like in my previous relationship. I have Dejanira in Pisces in the 4H. Oops, sorry Amiann. I admire your wisdom. Is there a good part to Nessus/deja conjunct? No worries. 2021 - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. Love,
Yes, their Moons are trine both in Earth signs. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. You don't need to BELIEVE in Jesus to come here and/or to contact me. 2) I just started going out with a guy, we have good chemistry and just checked our natal charts and see we share amazing aspects except for my dejanira. I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts? Youll have to use your judgement here. I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. Dejanira is the victim asteroid. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Sun My ex has Scorpio Pluto conjunct my scorpio moon, and I have Sagittarius pluto conjunct his sagittarius moon. In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid. If they are conjunct in synastry, a soul mate connection is indicated. Chiron conjunct sun. But interested to see how things unfold. I had a very intense, psychically damaging and life changing relationship with a man whose Eros was directly conjunct my Lilith, and also more loosely conjunct my Neptune & Descendant. I think there are very few people who actually manage to overcome childhood abuse, and not without a long painful journey and negative experiences. Two celestial bodies are in conjunction when they are very close to each other, often in the same sign but never more than 8 degrees apart. Nessus is the abusers asteroid. I hope I can do this in my articles. Making people fear being in relationships over tiny aspects that do not have an incredibly high chance of playing out is not healing to others. You truly made my day! Thank you =). Lilith-Mars Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square) Lilith-Mars aspects are all about clash of desires. His sun/jupiter/neptune/venus are on my venus/saturn trouble spot in scorp. Maybe you felt this way sometimes given your Lilith-Eros contacts, but I was certainly the one more outwardly angry when the mess finally hit the fan. This pairing can form a deep emotional bond, especially through physical intimacy. They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. That`s very interesting information. I am sorry! You made my day, Juice and Welcome! That is why I, affectionately, call them too hot not to cool down. There are certain aspects I see in these dark,nuclear passion relationships. Pluto conjunct Sun synastry indicates a powerful and transformative relationship. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. Thats why its so weird bc it is a very good longterm relationship. Sorry if this came off mean, I just dont want people to get scared over having one aspect when astrological interpretations are not set in stone. I just want to let people know that things are not as clean cut and set in astrology as it is written sometimes because things that are presented as the only possible, likely truth will make people will fear astrology and the people around them if they look into isolated aspects from small asteroids and planets alike. But I do see this possibly helping people with many bad aspects that could show any possibility of abuse in their own chart already whom have actually been through anything so that this can help them feel validated about past or current pains, but its not good to deem things as going to play out in time just because they havent yet in a long standing, healthy relationship. Hi Ami. It gives no leg room, and its fearful to people. You, as the Pluto in the trine with his Sun and venus could kind of see through him lol, Thank you Amy for your reply We are both passionate, but luckily, by nature, not violent people thank God . Your posts are starting to scare me now Ami. What would you say about moon conjunct pluto in a composite chart. Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. I should have replied to the previous post, as it was a continuation of the conversation we had started. That Pluto/DSC has been a source of confusion and frustration for me for a while, but now it makes sense. Thanks for your posts Ami. Many people say they have overcome things but I watch their actions and see they are lying. However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? How will these aspects play out? Priapus is likewise called a "minor rustic God" or even "an oversexed gardening God." Squares and oppositions between Saturn and Juno can speak to a difficult relationship in the past, and theres some potential for this difficulty to be repeated unless both people are committed to working through their issues and working on the relationship. Yeah, the They may not be able to see what you are up and you could use this for your gain fits perfectly. Ami, Christian Psychic Readings & Astrology Charts for All Faiths. I think her NN is right on his 7th house axis for one. his moon is in cancer so depending on what time hes born, there are 2 scenarios :1) my Saturn squares his moon but my sun and north node would conjunct it 2) my Pluto would square his moon but our moons would be in trine. When the son grows up, he will likely be the abuser,too. I agree with Sydney. I came across your blog post and so went through my charts looking for couple friends and this one came up as having the conjunction. I am so intrigued!!! You interpret things based off of your own view. If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. Which probably held it together for SO long. It can also happen that there are changes in your love life when the Vertex is triggered in your birth chart by some transiting planet or progression. (double-whammy..) And posting my charf sounds like fun, I just might . And thank you for this article, I should have said that before. My first husband was abusive His Nessus conjunct my Descendant The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. Moon conjunct Lilith EXACT Moon conjunct Destinn EXACT Venus square Mars EXACT I know this came off a bit more forward, but only because I want to make it clear that one persons feelings are not fact. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. Posts: 83From: 8th houseRegistered: Jan 2014, Posts: 50409From: Saturn next to CharmaineRegistered: Apr 2009, Copyright 2000-2015 Could you specify what you mean by abuse (subtle, verbal, violent etc.?)? We need to look at the whole chart to see the whole story. Any other aspect will show a wound through marriage, but the marriage wasnt necessarily involving both parties together. I was wondering how abuse would play itself out if the Nessus-Deja synastry conjunction is in Cancer. You do not have to do their chart. Thank you, I also found out that my Nessus is 1 degree conjunct my current boyfriends Sun(Cancer). Once awakened, no matter how untamed the experience becomes, we are given a rare opportunity to integrate, redeem and restore Eros and Lilith to a place of honor through shared, transcendental sexual activity. The conjunction is excact. Is this something that reliably and consistently is reflected in a variety of different charts? Copyright [the-year] [site-link] | This website is intended for entertainment purposes only. Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 . Hi Amiann We have moons in conjunction in gemini; His venus and mars are in conjunction with my venus in Aquarius. That being said, the charts WILL play out, imo and ime. I am for the stark, bare truth cuz that is what heals. Welcome, Ariel and great questions. Does it matter if he doesnt have pluto in aspect to my venus (mine is 19 Libra)? Drawing that authoritarian feminine energy into the already present power themes must have been really overwhelming, just flooding in from every corner. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. That is the nature of the DSC. How do we honor Lilith in our lives? As far as the form of abuse, one must look at the sign and the quadriplicity( cardinal, fixed or mutable) One must look at the chart to see how the abuse will play out but I think that abuse will occur in your situation with Nessus conjunct Dejanira. Thanks for your help Amiann. I guess I was just worried in general, just in case :P. how about deja conjuct saturn 1 degree. Thanks SO much for your kind words. The ex that abused me while I was pregnant had his Nessus conjunct my MC. It always starts this way. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. If someone does not want to accept the truth, that is their choice, but I, personally, will not do their chart. . Posts: 9778 From: Death Star . Retro makes one thoughtful, so I do not see it as bad as many do. To put it plainly, if you have a dominant Nessus, you will be an abuser. Also, there is no abuse either way. For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. I know there are astrologers who make every aspect positive but I dont think that is real and real is what heals and real is what gets people mad at you too lol. Thank you Ariel! His Dejanira is in 25 Scorpio, conjunct my Part of Fortune in 27 Scorpio, opposite my Moon in 29 Taurus and Mars and Jupiter, in 0 Gemini. I don't need anything from you, except to serve you. I am new on this and finding all this information was revealing, so now I will stick to questions about my dejanira and nesuus. Deja conj the DSC may make you look for wounded bird types. That is what I was saying. What if a man has Dejanira conjunct a womans Sun? I hear your concern. Thank You so much for this info. That would be my guess. I've never had a more natural and effortless sexual connection to someone in my life, and it blinded me to a lot of things. Moon conjunct Pluto is the strongest of the Moon/Pluto aspects because the conjunction trumps any other aspect in strength. You find them sexually attractive. I was sexually abused in my home by a family member. Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. I dont do the Draconic. And my dejanira conjunct his Venus. Hats off to your courage. Yes, astrology charts do show the truth of ones life, but the issue is that YOUR opinions do not equate the truth. Please, keep giving your opinion. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. Maybe, the good aspects just out weight this one. The Moon person feels comforted by the Sun person's energy and the Sun person feels like they can be vulnerable with the Moon person. This would be once in a lifetime kind of intense and tender. Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. I am the nessus person and I admit to having some devious tendencies towards anyone with neptune in that position. Hi, To learn more about the past life, look at the aspect, the houses in which the planets sit, and the signs. In order to talk about an asteroid, one must isolate it. I am so thankful to have such a resource like this for guidance. Your words mean a lot to me! on Dejanira and Nessus. Groom conjunct the Vertex. I could not agree more with this. As one of the four largest asteroids (along with Vesta, Pallas, and Juno), Ceres is usually analyzed in the birth chart. Thank you, amiann. orb). When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? This can indicate marriage, but it can also indicate a long-term romantic or sexual relationship. I have 8 scorpio ascendant and he 4 scorpio jupiter. As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. You both feel admiration for each other. What about nessus exactly conjunct BML in synastry the man is nessus (9h), Wow Is there a super attraction that feels so strong that it will blow you off your feet? I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriends for about 6 hours.